It’s no mystery that Chinese women are some of the most well-rounded, classy, respectful, intelligent while sexiest in the world. Chinese women come from family’s that take great pride in themselves, who they are, and who they’ll become. One of the strongest values women from China have are pride, but not in an overzealous sense.
Unfortunately in the United States, American women can often hold themselves differently, curse a lot, drink like a man, spit like a man, and even think like a man. And what kind of man would want to marry a woman that reminds him of a man? While there’s plenty of men out there that might be attracted to this, there are plenty who aren’t.
Much like their families, Chinese women judge the man that they “court” based on what kind of man he is and is likely to be in the future. Whether you’ll be an ideal life partner, what kind of father you’ll make, and whether or not you can genuinely care for and protect her. Not only if you can, but that you actually will.
In America dating is much more casual, one night stands are commonplace, and plenty of women are just “looking to have a good time”. While this is appealing or enjoyable for those that are perhaps a bit younger, unattached, or don’t mind a casual, sexual lifestyle, plenty of men are looking for a woman more serious, has potential, and someone that they want to bring home to their mother or family.
Chinese women in comparison to the women we might be used to in Western culture vary greatly, and for good reason. Let’s consider some of the ways Chinese women are so different than what we’re used to, and why.
Chinese Women truly do Care for You
We know that people including both men and women always say that the women they’ve dated or where they’re from has the best women in the world. But, the difference with Chinese women is that this is really true, and they set themselves apart from other women often because of the ways they were raised.
You see, Chinese women were raised to follow orders or directions by their parents, and take social status very seriously. They’re taught that pride and reputation are everything, and can either make or ruin your life.
What this means is that you’re Chinese girlfriend or lover will always aim to please you, but may need a little direction. As long as you’re respectful, kind, and reciprocate the love you can expect to be much more satisfied and happy in your relationship than what you’re used to from the past.
With an American girlfriend, you might notice that things can often be a mystery with what your woman what’s, consisting of you often being too afraid to tell her what and how you really want it – ranging from cooking, outings, all the way to the bedroom. Often American women also have many more sexual experiences and partners in the past, so insecurity and a lack of commitment can be commonplace.
Often, Chinese women are virgins, believe they should stay so until married, or have very few if any sexual partners unless they’re going to get married. Because of this, making love becomes so much more sentimentally valuable, sweet, genuine, and special.
Chinese Women are Proud of their Culture and Will Show It
People in general but especially women from China happen to be some of the most enthusiastic, talented cooks that bake with passion in comparison to most women throughout the entire world.
Chinese women are brought up so closely to their family and are taught how to cook, different cultural recipes, and aim to please you, your appetite, and to keep you healthy. They know how to take care of their man, and they will always watch your back.
It’s not necessarily seen as commonly in America that a woman pays especially such close attention to your health, makes sure you’re always full, and that you’re making healthy decisions.
Women brought up in China are very health smart, but also have a holistic approach to dealing with illnesses, relying on natural remedies and ingredients, but are also still educated and intelligent enough to know when it’s necessary to go to the doctor.
Chinese Women Know the Role They Want
In today’s day and age in American most women don’t seem to take kindly to discussions about being an “at-home mom”, deny such roles in many cases, and feel as though they’re entitled to the same rights as a man. While no one here disagrees with that in any shape or form, it’d seem as though being with an American woman is often complicated and confusing.
There’s nothing wrong with a woman that wants to work and become educated to start a career, just as it’s fine for said woman to also take care of the children or share responsibilities with the father, who in Chinese culture is typically seen as “the breadwinner”.
The difficulty and confusing troubles that many men have with American women are that they seem to want the best of both worlds, not talk about it, or be judged and seen as a “stay at home mom”, but in really, plenty of them do want this. With Chinese women, they take pride in the ability to be a mother, but are also straightforward enough to let you know what roles they want in a relationship, marriage, and aren’t afraid to take on both.
We’d say the biggest difference here between that and American women is that women in the U.S. and other western cultures often seem to “secretly” complain that they just wish they could stay at home all day with the kids, and even spite their husbands for not giving them that life.
So in a nutshell, Chinese women are incredibly beautiful, intelligent, educated, and culturally relevant. They should not be stereotyped just as any other person or woman, but carry very strong family values, their reputation, and know how to be a good wife and mother to their family.